
AFTER THOUGHTS Do your part with compassion for all
Some of our Yates County neighbors have had a few rough days, and they need our continued and unconditional support. This is not a time for conjecture or gossip. It's a time for compassion, because grief has washed over many with the losses of precious family members and those who answer the calls for help.
The volunteer and professional emergency rescuers who burst into our lives just when we might be having our worst possible day have seen many tragic situations over the years. They have held us up when it looks like there's no reason to carry on, whether it be at an automobile, farm, or work accident scene; fire, natural disaster, or recreation gone wrong.
The fire, emergency medical, and law enforcement attention that you'll find here in Yates County is an indication of the spirit of this community that cares. But when the worst of the worst happens, they need our help too, especially when they are involved in complicated situations.
Driving along Route 364 headed toward a soccer game in Rushville last week, we encountered an ambulance speeding toward Penn Yan. I've been to enough accident scenes to realize the speed it was traveling was not a good indication of the outcome.
Later, word of the tragic result â the death of a 1-year-old boy â began to filter along the sideline of the soccer game. Certainly, other spectators felt the same: thankful to be watching the kids we love doing exactly what all kids should be doing â playing a game â while quietly mourning the loss of an innocent and the heartbreak of another family. Then, the thoughts went to the responders who had been on the scene and in the 911 communications center for this, and other recent losses.
After the adrenaline of answering the call for help, they carry the weight of the trauma. Fortunately, the worst outcomes are uncommon here. But that doesn't mean they don't take their toll on the emotional and physical well-being of our rescuers. We all need to be aware of the price they pay.
What can we do?
It's not hard to show compassion for all involved. Refrain from jumping to conclusions about the specific details of an incident, especially in social media posts. Your ignorance can be damaging.
We can also support emergency services fundraising efforts through the year. Buy the chicken dinners, pancake breakfasts, pizzas, and subs; fill their boots with pocket cash; and give generously to any formal campaigns. Help law enforcement collect toys or raise funds and awareness.
Donate your own time if you are able. The demands on personal time and commitment are significant, but after spending time with some of these individuals, you'll see how it can easily become a way of life. Maybe you can't put on the gear, but perhaps there are some other things you can do to help.
Finally, don't be the next person they have to save or the reason they have to save anyone. Live your life, but do it safely.
Life in the Finger Lakes is full of opportunities for family, fun, and employment. But with all of those come the need for trained and experienced people who can be there for a neighbor or visitor in trouble, whether the incident is a motor vehicle, boating, industrial, construction, or farm accident. They need to be prepared to rescue hikers from deep gullies, or been swept into rapid water, and they need the equipment â sometimes expensive â to carry out their mission.
Don't get in their way. Do your part and be compassionate and thoughtful about publicly commenting on something you're not fully informed about.
Do you have feedback on this or a suggestion for a future column? Feel free to email me at gchamberlain27@gmail.com.